Family

cropped-Asian-in-minnesota.pngBeneath the North Star explores the multifaceted Southeast Asian population in Minnesota, the heartland of America. While the experiences of Asian immigrants are well documented on the coasts, the tales of those in the Midwest, especially those of the refugees, have been largely overlooked. A major goal of this project is to collect and present their experiences. How well did they settle in Minnesota? How did they face the challenges of assimilation, stereotype, and discrimination while keeping their own cultures, languages, traditions, family values, and identities? What does it mean to be an “American” and live an “American” life in Minnesota?

During the summer of 2016, the research team interviewed 16 Southeast Asian Americans, both first and second generation, who come from diverse ethnic backgrounds, including Cambodian, Filipino, Karen, Vietnamese along with college professors and educational experts who have extensive knowledge and worked closely with Southeast Asian students. The stories that are presented here also encompass those participants with heritages from Indian-Thai, Malaysian, and Laotian in earlier research. For the most part, the semi-structured interviews took place on the St. Olaf campus as well as the homes of the informants. The interviews usually last between one and one and a half hour.

Their stories bear some similarities. Many struggled between learning English and holding onto their heritage language. Others experienced some form of racism. All of them stressed education, family, and community as most important to them. However, there were also differences, chiefly regarding individual identity, ethnic labeling, and the idea of the “American Dream.”

My dad had to, well he tried to escape from Vietnam so many times. It took him a while to escape from Vietnam because of the wars. And like, my grandparents were in like WWI and WWII and like my mom when she was in Vietnam.. She had to chop up pigs and everything and if she wanted to go to school she would have to walk more than 10 miles to go to school. They had to share meals and she most of the time she had to work at home and it was hard for us. When I was younger my mom always said you have to protect your family no matter what.. She will tell me stories of her and her brothers and her parents and how she would rather give her money to her brothers so they could go to school rather than herself. She really really cared about her family which I really put into importance.

Janis: A student who actually was raising two children in addition to attending school full time and . . . here at St. Olaf and you know it’s a really rigorous curriculum here at Olaf, and so I think just having really achieved the goal of earning her BA and then actually going into a Master’s program and earning her Master’s degree as well. She also had a lot of family obligations besides her immediate two children where you know she often would have to interpret during doctor visits for her family. She, if you want to add anything about the background, I think you know who I’m talking about, but yeah. But always education was her major goal. Like she just always, that was, that was what kept just really motivating her and driving her to get that degree, or both degrees which is very impressive we feel.

Melissa: And that seems kinda typical amongst a lot of students that we have, and especially Asian students of that dedication and just the balancing of time and you know some people see success as being a 4.0, and that can be successful. But when we see students like her I mean that’s how hands down like how she could successfully complete St. Olaf, do really great academically, balance her extracurriculars, take care of her family, her children. You know, she’s dedicated to her culture. It’s just really impressive I think, as McNair staff are just kinda blown away by that.

Receiving my scholarship from Augsburg was the proudest moment because the amount of time I spent on the essay was two months. And I hated writing essays, so I rarely do that. And the fact that I had to ask my parents for help and the fact that when I opened the the letter and showed them that I had free tuition in our freshmen region was for sure the proudest moment. I was the first generation in my family to go to college. I wrote in my essay heavily on how my parents came to America after Communists and how my mom came to America . . . After the Communists it was her older brother that first tried to escape and there was a terrible accident. My grandma didn’t want her to go, but they figured out Vietnam at that current kind of status wasn’t the best to have kids. So my mom and her little brother escaped on a boat and it was a really small boat. They were very limited in resources and they were kind of at the point where she was very frail. She was able to be found by fishermen in the Philippines and she was there for a few years before she was able to be accept to America. The reason why she thinks that she was able to get there was because my dad was supporting with America to get rid of Communists in her home country.

So being that we have these small communities in these larger American communities. There’s a lot of tensions I feel like, and these tensions can very much affect the students. And how do they can affected? Well, say that a certain student in one family is pursuing to be a doctor or a lawyer, something prestigious as a profession. What we tend to do in these communities is to pressure our kids into pursuing that. I think that plays in part that our parents were never brought up in the American system. They hear that doctors and lawyers are great professions. But there are hundreds of other professions that others can pursue. So then the child kind of takes on that expectation from their parents and have to give up their passion of becoming a musician or a teacher. So they have to then struggle with that pressure from the society that, this person in this family is pursuing something that is prestigious so my parents want me to also. In a community that is so small, you have to sort of compete in a sense. So I think there is that challenge as well in the Asian American communities here in Minnesota.

This is a big country and that wage was simply not enough to get our family by. Myself also, when still in the assembly line, I worked mainly with metal stuff, then I realized I needed to move up to a more specialized position. I started honing my skills to become a welder. I worked on my new skills everyday, even throughout the cold winter. I did not take a break, and there was no one to teach me how to weld. I got promoted a year later when my supervisor realized my ability to weld well. They issued me a certification for welding. I was grateful because I could not attend any technical school but could still got the certification. From then on, I got paid with the rate based on the certification. I’ve been paid $16-17/ hour. Then things remained stable until now. In 2007, I bought this house so that my children could go to school more easily and freely. It’s America, people should be able to live freely and comfortably.