{"id":161,"date":"2017-01-22T21:57:33","date_gmt":"2017-01-23T03:57:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/pages.stolaf.edu\/hmg\/?page_id=161"},"modified":"2026-10-16T17:17:15","modified_gmt":"2026-10-16T22:17:15","slug":"161-2","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/pages.stolaf.edu\/hmg\/161-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Mai Lor Thao"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"et_pb_section_0 et_pb_section et_pb_fullwidth_section et_section_regular et_block_section\"><div class=\"et_pb_fullwidth_slider_0 et_pb_slider et_pb_module\"><div class=\"et_pb_slides\"><div class=\"et_pb_slide_0 et_pb_slide et_pb_media_alignment_center et_pb_bg_layout_dark et_pb_text_align_center\" data-slide-id=\"divi\/slide-0\"><div class=\"et_pb_container\"><div class=\"et_pb_slider_container_inner\"><div class=\"et_pb_slide_description\"><h2 class=\"et_pb_slide_title\">Mai Lor Thao<\/h2><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"et_pb_section_1 et_pb_section et_section_regular et_block_section\"><div class=\"et_pb_row_0 et_pb_row et_block_row\"><div class=\"et_pb_column_0 et_pb_column et_pb_column_4_4 et-last-child et_block_column et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough\"><div class=\"et_pb_text_0 et_pb_text et_pb_bg_layout_light et_pb_module et_block_module et_pb_text_align_left\"><div class=\"et_pb_text_inner\"><p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/pages.stolaf.edu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/889\/2016\/12\/cropped-Beyond-Two-Worlds-11-white-11.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-140 alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/pages.stolaf.edu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/889\/2016\/12\/cropped-Beyond-Two-Worlds-11-white-11.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"90\" height=\"90\" srcset=\"https:\/\/pages.stolaf.edu\/hmg\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/889\/2016\/12\/cropped-Beyond-Two-Worlds-11-white-11.png 512w, https:\/\/pages.stolaf.edu\/hmg\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/889\/2016\/12\/cropped-Beyond-Two-Worlds-11-white-11-150x150.png 150w, https:\/\/pages.stolaf.edu\/hmg\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/889\/2016\/12\/cropped-Beyond-Two-Worlds-11-white-11-300x300.png 300w, https:\/\/pages.stolaf.edu\/hmg\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/889\/2016\/12\/cropped-Beyond-Two-Worlds-11-white-11-270x270.png 270w, https:\/\/pages.stolaf.edu\/hmg\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/889\/2016\/12\/cropped-Beyond-Two-Worlds-11-white-11-192x192.png 192w, https:\/\/pages.stolaf.edu\/hmg\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/889\/2016\/12\/cropped-Beyond-Two-Worlds-11-white-11-180x180.png 180w, https:\/\/pages.stolaf.edu\/hmg\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/889\/2016\/12\/cropped-Beyond-Two-Worlds-11-white-11-32x32.png 32w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 90px) 100vw, 90px\" \/><\/a>Mai Lor Thao<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"color: #800080\"><strong>A<\/strong><\/span>fter losing her parents when she was very young, while fleeing from the Communist Lao, Mai Lor Thao was raised by her grandparents. They fled to Thailand where she later married Vager Xiong and had two kids in the refugee camps. In 1990 they immigrated to the US where she raised the rest of her family, she is the mother of 10 kids. In 2000, Thao stopped working due to some injuries and is living off welfare.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><div class=\"et_pb_divider_0 et_pb_divider et_pb_space et_pb_divider_position_top et_pb_module\"><div class=\"et_pb_divider_internal\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"et_pb_row_1 et_pb_row et_block_row\"><div class=\"et_pb_column_1 et_pb_column et_pb_column_1_2 et_block_column et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough\"><div class=\"et_pb_text_1 et_pb_text et_pb_bg_layout_light et_pb_module et_block_module et_pb_text_align_left\"><div class=\"et_pb_text_inner\"><p style=\"text-align: center\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\"We are from the mountains and countryside of a third world country. Our lives revolve around the land. Because of that we weren\u2019t educated. We didn\u2019t even know how to spell our names. In terms of education we were very far behind. The first thing we learned is to use hoes and machetes to dig up the earth and harvest fields. We never had the chance to hold pens like others were able to. So we struggle to catch up to them. Whenever people ask me what I am, I say I am Hmong. Then they ask me \u00a0where I\u2019m from and I say I\u2019m from Laos. Since I am Hmong, I can\u2019t also be an American. But when they ask if I am a citizen, I say yes. Even though my background is Hmong, I have lived here for over 20 years. But I am still Hmong\"<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"et_pb_column_2 et_pb_column et_pb_column_1_2 et-last-child et_block_column et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough\"><div class=\"et_pb_video_0 et_pb_video et_pb_module et_block_module\"><div class=\"et_pb_video_box\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Mai Lor Thao Life\" width=\"1080\" height=\"608\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/9HxLSMgycsA?feature=oembed\"  allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"et_pb_row_2 et_pb_row et_block_row\"><div class=\"et_pb_column_3 et_pb_column et_pb_column_4_4 et-last-child et_block_column et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough\"><div class=\"et_pb_divider_1 et_pb_divider et_pb_space et_pb_divider_position_top et_pb_module\"><div class=\"et_pb_divider_internal\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"et_pb_row_3 et_pb_row et_block_row\"><div class=\"et_pb_column_4 et_pb_column et_pb_column_1_2 et_block_column et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough\"><div class=\"et_pb_video_1 et_pb_video et_pb_module et_block_module\"><div class=\"et_pb_video_box\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Ma Lor Thao Journey\" width=\"1080\" height=\"608\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/ObDBmAUEesc?feature=oembed\"  allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"et_pb_column_5 et_pb_column et_pb_column_1_2 et-last-child et_block_column et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough\"><div class=\"et_pb_text_2 et_pb_text et_pb_bg_layout_light et_pb_module et_block_module et_pb_text_align_left\"><div class=\"et_pb_text_inner\"><p style=\"text-align: center\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\"But my family, I have two brothers and then there\u2019s me so 3 total. Including my grandma and grandpa then there are 5 of us and we lived in Vinai, Thailand. In Laos, my parents were Cao Fa.\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">If i was to tell the story, we were persecuted by the communist Lao and vietnamese allies, so my parents were killed. So I was raised by my grandparents. Life was very hard, and I was young, so my grandparents took us and we fled for Thailand. We crossed the Mekong River to Thailand, where I grew up and eventually got married. At this time, I wanted to return to Lao but I had no family to return to. Since my parents were killed, I decided to get married and immigrate to the US. We were sent to Phanat Nikhom to learn a little about America. Because in Vinai we did not have any education about it. I did a lot of sewing and such but no schooling. So in Phanat Nikhom we learned how to use the appliances and things in US houses. Like toilets, gas stoves, electricity, etc, everyday household things. Because we\u2019ve never used electricity before, we had to burn fire for heat or to cool\"<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"et_pb_row_4 et_pb_row et_block_row\"><div class=\"et_pb_column_6 et_pb_column et_pb_column_4_4 et-last-child et_block_column et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough\"><div class=\"et_pb_divider_2 et_pb_divider et_pb_space et_pb_divider_position_top et_pb_module\"><div class=\"et_pb_divider_internal\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"et_pb_row_5 et_pb_row et_block_row\"><div class=\"et_pb_column_7 et_pb_column et_pb_column_1_2 et_block_column et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough\"><div class=\"et_pb_text_3 et_pb_text et_pb_bg_layout_light et_pb_module et_block_module et_pb_text_align_left\"><div class=\"et_pb_text_inner\"><p style=\"text-align: center\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\"When I first got to the US, it was very difficult. We learned about using household things back in Phanat Nikhom. I learned to use hot and cold water and use electricity, but it was still difficult. One difficult thing was not knowing how to get to the store. You don\u2019t travel by foot much anymore, you have to travel by car since there are streets. None of us knew this when we arrived here since there weren\u2019t many back home. In order to get to the store you had to ask someone to take you. But even after getting to the store you had no idea where things like food were located. It was very difficult many times, and I pondered on how I would be able to survive and live here. I was constantly stressed and missed my home country. I was here but my heart was there. However, I have my kids and I want them to know that even if they don\u2019t run for President or something, that\u2019s okay. Just get educated. So that they will be successful and capable of living on their own, finding work and food. Or if we as parents need anything like translation or help, they are not able to help us\"<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"et_pb_column_8 et_pb_column et_pb_column_1_2 et-last-child et_block_column et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough\"><div class=\"et_pb_video_2 et_pb_video et_pb_module et_block_module\"><div class=\"et_pb_video_box\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Mai Lor Thao Difficulties\" width=\"1080\" height=\"608\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/Y9TaD_1DEZ8?feature=oembed\"  allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":1490,"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-161","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/pages.stolaf.edu\/hmg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/161","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/pages.stolaf.edu\/hmg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/pages.stolaf.edu\/hmg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pages.stolaf.edu\/hmg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1490"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pages.stolaf.edu\/hmg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=161"}],"version-history":[{"count":12,"href":"https:\/\/pages.stolaf.edu\/hmg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/161\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":839,"href":"https:\/\/pages.stolaf.edu\/hmg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/161\/revisions\/839"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/pages.stolaf.edu\/hmg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=161"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}